Gwyneth Montenegro, 39 years old, is a former Australian escort, and has spent 12 years sleeping with well-known lawyers, politicians and musicians. She has written a book revealing the surprising things that men will pay for. In her new book “The Secret Taboo – The Ultimate Insider’s Guide to Being a Financially Successful Escort” she confides that “most men don’t always come for sexual services.”

In fact, over the decade that she was in the industry, the most important thing for her clients was “the feeling of being necessary and desired” by a hot woman. It’s their ultimate fantasy after all.”

She says that it is therefore vital for an escort, “to make the client believe that she is very fond of him, and that she appreciates him enormously (even if it is not the case)”.

Many girls in the industry try to compete with each other by providing more sexual acts or practices, but that should be avoided, in her opinion. She stated: “Don’t try to follow, or outdo someone else, or it could turn against you. You only have to work within your limits.”

According to Gwyneth, the main reason why many men have turned to her for sex was because they were feeling emasculated and less of a man in their own relationships. She revealed that even if the men paid her for sexual services, a large part of her work was simply to talk to them. In fact, many men wanted an authentic conversation and connection.

One of the most frequent questions she received from girls was to know if getting larger breasts would be beneficial to their success as an escort. The former prostitute revealed that most men prefer the feeling of real breasts, but that there is a market for all body types. She wrote: “If you have a large chest, there is a market. If you have small breasts, there is also a market. I wouldn’t waste too much time on it”, she advises.

A little-known secret in the hobbying world is that many men actively seek escorts who are not the hottest or most beautiful women, and will go with someone more physically average, because they are shy and sometimes feel a little inadequate themselves.

“You don’t have to be the hottest femme fatale, but simply professional, well-groomed, friendly, confident and have good energy”.

Gwyneth said that she was young and naïve before she began working as a sex worker at the age of 21, and that she wouldn’t recommend the industry to anyone.